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Writing on the conversations we've all been having.

Writing from Ken Bogard, Grace Gavin, and the Know Honesty team on what real communication looks like at work and everywhere else it matters.

Workplace

When to Hire a Facilitator (And When to Run the Session Yourself)

You’ve run meetings like this before. The agenda is on the screen, your team is around the table, and you’re holding the marker. Twenty minutes in, someone raises the real issue, the one not on the…

Oct 2026 5 min read
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How to Manage a Difficult Employee (Start With the Word You Gave Them)
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How to Manage a Difficult Employee (Start With the Word You Gave Them)

Pick one word for each of your direct reports. The first word is the honest one, and whatever you wrote down, you are already leading those people through it.

Aug 2026 4 min read
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Why People Don’t Listen to You at Work
Workplace

Why People Don’t Listen to You at Work

People stop listening long before they stop hearing. The signs look like engagement, which is why the cost shows up months later in decisions that get quietly remade.

Aug 2026 4 min read
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Why “We’ve Always Done It This Way” Is Quietly Killing Your Team’s Best Ideas
Workplace

Why “We’ve Always Done It This Way” Is Quietly Killing Your Team’s Best Ideas

Some rules survive on habit alone. Nobody remembers who set them or why. Two honest questions can reopen the ones your team stopped noticing, and rebuild the trust to change them.

Jul 2026 4 min read
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The Exact Script to Start a Hard Conversation at Work (Plus 5 Real Scenarios)
Workplace

The Exact Script to Start a Hard Conversation at Work (Plus 5 Real Scenarios)

68% of people score higher on honesty than openness. New data from 1,410 Pursuit of Honesty Assessments reveals the gap and why it matters for real communi

Jun 2026 10 min read
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What 1,400 Communication Assessments Reveal About the Honesty Gap
Workplace

What 1,400 Communication Assessments Reveal About the Honesty Gap

68% of people score higher on honesty than openness. New data from 1,410 Pursuit of Honesty Assessments reveals the gap and why it matters for real communi

May 2026 5 min read
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Why Employees Stop Telling Their Boss the Truth
Workplace

Why Employees Stop Telling Their Boss the Truth

When employees stop being honest with their leaders, the whole organization suffers in ways that don't show up until it's too late. Here's why it happens a

Apr 2026 4 min read
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The Blow Up Has to Happen: Why Avoiding Hard Conversations Is Destroying Your Team
Conflict

The Blow Up Has to Happen: Why Avoiding Hard Conversations Is Destroying Your Team

Teams spend months, even years, avoiding a conversation that would take a few hours to resolve. What is on the other side of it is worth far more than the

Mar 2026 4 min read
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Stop Writing Their Lines
Self

Stop Writing Their Lines

Learn how to prepare for difficult conversations by focusing on your own clarity. Stop scripting the other person and start communicating with openness and

Feb 2026 4 min read
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Why New Year's Resolutions Fail (And the One Thing That Really Works)
Self

Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail (And the One Thing That Really Works)

You made it three weeks before breaking your resolution. The one you genuinely meant on January 1st. The problem? You're lying to yourself about what you w

Jan 2026 3 min read
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